• 08Jun

    I just returned from a weekend trip with some really cool Exit 6 students.  Exit 6 is a program for the 6th graders at my church. It helps them transition from the children’s ministry to the youth ministry. We went to Cincinnati to explore the Creation Museum, bond as a group, and serve at a homeless shelter. There were many highlights from the trip, but watching the students transition from sixth-graders to servants as we worked at the shelter was one of my favorites. 

    We made 28 homemade pizzas–chopped the veggies, cooked the meat, etc.  Those students jumped right in and worked hard with great attitudes. They helped prepare the meal, serve the meal, and clean up from the meal. They even spent time interacting with people from the shelter. People who didn’t dress like them, look like them, talk like them, or smell like them. They didn’t seem to notice the differences by the time we were finished. 

    I vividly recall one moment as I stood in a corner  and watched them in action. My “Mommy Heart” looked out over the room, noticing the unique personalities shining through as they served, and wished all the other Mommies could have witnessed what I  was seeing.  They got it–they saw the big picture. They were really serving for the right reasons. 

    I can’t always say the same thing about myself.  I sometimes allow the distractions of my daily details to cloud up the big picture.  What about you?  When’s the last time you served–like a sixth-grade servant?

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  • 21Jan

    Honey, where are the matches?  Mom, where’s the flashlight?  Help!  Where’s the extra toilet paper?  These are questions that invoke a different answer audibly than the one that remains in my head!  (Duh?  Where have we always kept that?  How long have we been married?  How many times do I have to remind you of the same thing?  Have you even looked where I told you to look last week?  Do you have your eyes open?  Are you kidding me?)  

    Without the same sarcastic tone that often accompanies my thoughts, I find myself wondering if God says some of the same things to me when I fail to remember what He’s already told me.  (Trust me, child. Don’t you remember I already forgave you for that–I don’t even remember it. Read my Word–the same verses I showed you two days ago! )

    Today He lovingly reminded me of something He has shown me over and over again–even in the last week. When will I learn?   

    Are you looking for anything and forgetting you already know where to find it?

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  • 20Jan

    Have you ever had someone judge you or a decision you have made and you know they did so without having pertinent facts?  Have you ever had someone hold you to a standard higher than they hold themselves to–and be quick to point out your inability to meet that standard? These kinds of things can frustrate me to the point of anger sometimes.  (I’m not proud of it–but it’s the truth!) Read more »

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  • 03Sep

    Warning: I am about to hop up onto a soapbox for a little bit. Stop reading now if you don’t want to be sloshed with the suds!

    This morning as I was leaving the elementary school parking lot, I saw something that made me want to scream! A mother had parked her car off to the side (in a spot not to be used as parking–another blog on another day) and was helping her daughter adjust her skirt before they walked to the school entrance. This is a good thing, right? WRONG!!!

    She was helping her daughter adjust it to be shorter than the girl wanted it. I watched as the mother repeatedly adjusted the skirt to be as short as the “fingertip rule” would allow. The little girl pulled it down repeatedly to a more comfortable (and more modest) length, only to be fussed at and corrected. It was hard to watch.
    It reminded me of another time when while shopping with my youngest daughter. We witnessed a mother correct her little girl (not more than 6 or 7 years of age) who had pulled her shirt down farther than her mother wanted her to.
    “Sweetie, your tummy doesn’t show when you pull it down like that. It’s cuter this way,” she said as she shimmied the shirt up the little torso a bit–and actually folded it under a bit to ensure a bare belly.
    This kind of thinking and teaching is wrong on several levels! Girls need to be taught modesty, and how to be in style within the bounds of modesty. I know some moms of boys who would appreciate more of that teaching! Can I get an AMEN?

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  • 30Jun

    “I can’t help you, I’m sorry!  Little people scare me!”  That’s what I was told when I put out a request for some extra helpers for a preschool class.  The man looked at me as if I had asked him to help me transfer a dozen rattle snakes from one cage to another.

     Do you work with preschoolers?  Do you have friends or relatives who have these little people in their lives?  Relax.  They aren’t scary–they are amazing. I’ll share some of my tried and true tips for connecting with these little ones.  These tips aren’t listed in order of importance because preschoolers are creative and ever changing individuals.  What works with one might not be the best approach with another. Read more »

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