• 08Jun

    I just returned from a weekend trip with some really cool Exit 6 students.  Exit 6 is a program for the 6th graders at my church. It helps them transition from the children’s ministry to the youth ministry. We went to Cincinnati to explore the Creation Museum, bond as a group, and serve at a homeless shelter. There were many highlights from the trip, but watching the students transition from sixth-graders to servants as we worked at the shelter was one of my favorites. 

    We made 28 homemade pizzas–chopped the veggies, cooked the meat, etc.  Those students jumped right in and worked hard with great attitudes. They helped prepare the meal, serve the meal, and clean up from the meal. They even spent time interacting with people from the shelter. People who didn’t dress like them, look like them, talk like them, or smell like them. They didn’t seem to notice the differences by the time we were finished. 

    I vividly recall one moment as I stood in a corner  and watched them in action. My “Mommy Heart” looked out over the room, noticing the unique personalities shining through as they served, and wished all the other Mommies could have witnessed what I  was seeing.  They got it–they saw the big picture. They were really serving for the right reasons. 

    I can’t always say the same thing about myself.  I sometimes allow the distractions of my daily details to cloud up the big picture.  What about you?  When’s the last time you served–like a sixth-grade servant?

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  • 20Jan

    Have you ever had someone judge you or a decision you have made and you know they did so without having pertinent facts?  Have you ever had someone hold you to a standard higher than they hold themselves to–and be quick to point out your inability to meet that standard? These kinds of things can frustrate me to the point of anger sometimes.  (I’m not proud of it–but it’s the truth!) Read more »

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  • 12Sep

    Do you ever feel like you are having one of those days? Earlier this week, I had one and I’m just getting over it. My mother found the following and sent it to me. I guess she wanted me to realize I had company on these days! I’ve added one to the end of the list that gives a glimpse of this day so far.

    What would you add to the list?

    Murphy’s Laws for Parents

    The tennis shoes you must replace today will go on sale next week.

    Leak proof thermoses will.

    The chances of a piece of bread falling with the grape jelly side down is directly proportional to the cost of the carpet.

    The garbage truck will be two doors past your house when the argument over whose day it is to take out the trash ends.

    The shirt your child must wear today will be the only one that needs to be washed or mended.

    Gym clothes left at school in lockers mildew at a faster rate than other clothing.

    The item your child lost, and must have for school within the next ten seconds, will be found in the last place you look.

    Sick children recover miraculously when the pediatrician enters the treatment room.

    Refrigerated items, used daily, will gravitate toward the back of the refrigerator.

    The busiest day of your week is the one your child will pick to leave the lunch box in the car.

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  • 09Sep

    How are you doing with this exercise I introduced a few weeks ago? Don’t be discouraged if you haven’t been consistent or haven’t even started. You can start today. Pray these biblical virtues for your kids and wait on the Lord to show you amazing things!

    A servant’s heart–God, help my children develop a servant’s heart. Teach them to serve wholeheartedly, as if they were serving You and not men. (Ephesians 6:7)

    Peace-loving–Lord, let my children make every effort to do what leads to peace. (Romans 14:19)

    A Heart for Missions–Lord, please help my children develop a desire to see your glory declared among the nations, your marvelous deeds among all peoples. (Psalm 96:3)

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  • 03Sep

    Warning: I am about to hop up onto a soapbox for a little bit. Stop reading now if you don’t want to be sloshed with the suds!

    This morning as I was leaving the elementary school parking lot, I saw something that made me want to scream! A mother had parked her car off to the side (in a spot not to be used as parking–another blog on another day) and was helping her daughter adjust her skirt before they walked to the school entrance. This is a good thing, right? WRONG!!!

    She was helping her daughter adjust it to be shorter than the girl wanted it. I watched as the mother repeatedly adjusted the skirt to be as short as the “fingertip rule” would allow. The little girl pulled it down repeatedly to a more comfortable (and more modest) length, only to be fussed at and corrected. It was hard to watch.
    It reminded me of another time when while shopping with my youngest daughter. We witnessed a mother correct her little girl (not more than 6 or 7 years of age) who had pulled her shirt down farther than her mother wanted her to.
    “Sweetie, your tummy doesn’t show when you pull it down like that. It’s cuter this way,” she said as she shimmied the shirt up the little torso a bit–and actually folded it under a bit to ensure a bare belly.
    This kind of thinking and teaching is wrong on several levels! Girls need to be taught modesty, and how to be in style within the bounds of modesty. I know some moms of boys who would appreciate more of that teaching! Can I get an AMEN?

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